2011 How do we get SEX in an Equal Money System if not in an agreement and there are no hookers?

Yes, this is correct no being will be subject to or have to sell their bodies to create a living for themselves and put food on the table. There will be no more prostitution, strip clubs, brothels, or call girls, as this is a degration of women and unacceptable to treat women as objects as has been portrayed and pushed in this current society.  Women will be seen equal to men and be considered within the standard of what is best for all, so women will have support and be given there basic needs to live as will men and children have access as well.

Sex will be seen in a new way as this will be an exploration and enjoyment of self expression thru becoming real here. This point of self realization is being walked thru desteni tools using self honesty, self forgiveness, and self corrective change to be able to stand here as a physical being meaning you are in the physical present in each and every breath considering all of what is here as you would consider for yourself.

Sex today is based on desire and self indulgence where we go to the limits to feed this sexual thirst we all have to get it and get it often. This while using fantasies and pictures to stimulate ourselves to spice things up using the mind to feed the desire to thus keep that sense of self satisfaction continuing as the simple act here as the physical seems boring compared to what we can conjure up in our heads. This accepting the current nature of men as ego driven consumers of stimulation, and using the mind to get themselves off no matter what the cost to other life is. The mind being given continued energy thru the build up to, during, and thru sex that is generated, this perpetuating the minds existence within all life as the mind is fueled from the energy created most succulently thru the act of human sex. There are consequences for the indulgence of sex and any form of energy we get addicted to, and it is the conditions we see today, child prostitution, rape, child kidnapping, this fueled from the desire to get more.      
                                                                                               (Image By: Marlen Vargas Del Razo)

Sex as desire and indulgence needs to be transcended so thus we are able to live here as self in the moment as expression no thoughts, no desires, no pictures or fantasies, no energy movements within just you here having sex as the physical. This will be also a point of self responsibility where one will take care of self within self intimacy and give self pleasure within massage or simply touching the body within what is here directing self to live how you would want to be treated within the sexual expression. If one is not in an agreement then you will build your self intimacy thru your own self exploration of physical touch.

Sexual expression will change from one of mind stimulation and addiction to here as self directing in breath in expanding what it means to be a physical being in physical expression actually being here in each touch as we stroke the softness of our skin as we breath. In an equal money system this will be part of the curriculum of the education system, where all will be taught how to respect self and express self as a physical being one and equal to all and learn to enjoy ourselves as sexual beings in self expression in gratefulness of the splender of what is here and who we are as life. Sex will not be bought or given up to make money, it will be a basis of the life essence here and a joy to participate in, the expansion within this expression of sex is limitless if we allow ourselves to let go and be here.

Investigate Desteni.co.za for more perspective on sexual expansion and self honest living, the forums are also great resources for what has never been really looked at or considered possible, it's definitely worth a look. Enjoy!

2011 How do we get SEX in an Equal Money System if not in an agreement and there are no hookers?

2011 What's so alluring about being Sexy?

Why do we call ourselves sexy? what does that imply when one is a sexy person? Obviously it's right here in the name, sexy is someone that you desire to have sex with. This attraction comes on like a automatic laser beam consuming you with the desires to get near and get close to the picture you see as sexy. This is usually with someone that is quite striking in looks, one that has a certain picture, and is defined within the societies norms to have a conformed view of what is 'beautiful'. Life has come down to this, when the attraction is met by the other, the deal is sealed, and the next is to plant the seed. This is based on energies racing thru the body, and the obsessive pull that ensues to release this build up. The sexier the better as we are obsessed with pictures that get the juices flowing so to speak, I have been consumed with the pictures of others and living my life based on the way a person looks, quite pathetic, and an absolute waste of time and abuse to life. We as life are not pictures, we are not these energies pulling and blinding us to what we actually are here as directive beings.

Sex is a point of self exploration and expansion, I am pushing this point within my agreement, and letting it go for a while to see where we stand. I have been quite satisfied with my application, but there is points of desire and lust for another being that I have to persist to stop and do necessary self forgiveness to release the build up. I usually lust over others that are similar to my personality, so this is another indicator that I am a system as I act automatic to impulses coming thru my body, no actual self expression within life here as who I am in this moment, but within the mind in comparisons, desires, and ideas about what I want and how I will get it. Not being directive within the realization that I am not energy, if looked at in self honesty, I am abdicating self responsibility to get a rush for a moment in time in spite of the abuse of following energies/mind causes.

Thru stopping sex for a while now, I realize that I don't need sex, I don't really care about it in terms of once released the desire for it also is released, it has stopped being something I am determined to get when I want it. Here within walking to freedom from this quest for the sexy picture to have a 'good' time with, I can expand myself within this expression to thus be able to enjoy as a whole human being one and equal with my partner in being physical.  This is a walk of self understanding, self willing to stop, and exploring places you are not use to going. Quite a fascinating ride, I suggest test it out as well, can you live without sex for 6 months? 

Some SF on Post while Writing

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to fear my mom reading this because its about sex.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to be embarrassed that my mom is reading this because i write of my sex life.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to define myself by those who are within and throughout my world.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to separate myself from my mom as one and equal.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to see myself as separate form my mom and feel inferior.

I forgive myself for allowing and acceptig to be inferior to others, and thus be inferior to myself.

I stop polarities, I stop fears, I stop defining myself by my world, I stop emotions of embarrassment. I stop the separation of my mom and me as one and equal to life.

2011 What's so alluring about being Sexy?

2011 Recent Points, Agreement, Speaking, Being Lonely

I haven't seen Dmitry in a few weeks now, we had just recently started up our agreement, but have not seen eachother since that weekend. We both had to work all week the first week, and then he went to training for two weeks, he'll be back this weekend. I have been continuing on in my own process working on points of anger control thru breath and stopping this point of trying to impress others to make myself feel ok. We talk on the phone briefly, but it's not much as it's only a few minutes. We have been talking about moving in together for a while now, but he is getting laid off from his job in a month so we might have to hold up on those plans or re-evaluate the financial end of it and see if we can work it. Rent here is quite expensive, equal money system will create fair price as well as opportunity for all on having and maintaining shelter, which is very cool as now many can't afford to live even tho they have jobs.

I like the idea that Gian recently shared in his vlog about his experience while being at the desteni farm, that him and his agreement partner, Leila, did within writing back and forth in a notebook, and kind of sharing themselves thru writing instead of speaking out the points as mind can influence easier when speaking. This is cool and I am gonna see if Dmitry wants to try it, I never considered doing this and seems a cool way to get more intimate with each-other as we start out this walk together. I always found it easier to express myself in writing rather then speaking as for me there is more room to get to what I want to express - out. Speaking I was always shy and didn't really have full confidence in what I was gonna say, so it come out shaky or in emotion. I have been working on that with vlogs tho, the speaking myself out part, just allowing myself to express not judging because then I probably would never post a video.

I find myself lonely within my world recently as there is not many who relate to me and I find it hard sometimes talking to others about stuff that I am interested in, I find allot of people just don't want to get so in depth about issues or stuff, and I find it hard sometimes expressing myself in ways to help people understand more of what I am talking about. I have completely changed since starting process in what I will talk about, sometimes I find it very hard to talk to others because I feel like I am compromising my process and/or causing abuse. The point of speaking up and directing myself with others, this I do sometimes, but it seems like a majority of people I talk to need to be directed allot, and I don't feel able to direct them in a way that is best for all because I have not yet lived what I speak. This comes up allot with my dad when he talks about stuff in politics, and I see myself go into a reactive state, so I just stop talking and let him speak and move on. When and if I did speak I would go into anger mostly and it would turn into an argument. I am directive at points when I see that it be cool to, but I definitely have notice I must discern each moment to assess whether I can be effective or whether I will be reactive when talking or speaking to others. Been a process with this that I am still walking, this being facing others as me and living whats best for all.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to become lonely when I believe that no one can relate to me.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to see others not relating to me and becoming lonely because i desire to have my expectations met of how a conversation should go and when this falls, I feel abandoned.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to blame others for making me feel abandoned and lonely because I haven't dealt with my one self interest connected to being with others and what I desire to speak about.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to place others within and as expectation.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to judge and blame others for my own polarity playout of being fulfilled and abandoned.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to use others as self comfort and not seeing me here as self comfort within and as myself as all as one as life.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to miss dmitry because he is someone I can openly talk to and he 'gets' me so to speak.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to not stand here as my own point of self stability and look for it out there, which is not real.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to go into moments with preconceived ideas and not allow life to be here unconditional in breath.

I forgive myself for allowing and accepting to miss breath here as me.

I stop this desire to be fulfilled.

I stop feeling lonely and abandoned due to my own self interest needs.

I stop seeing others as my comfort and realize I am here as my own self comfort and self stability.

I am here and realize I can only make real life here if I will it thru self living. I am one and equal with all here and I realize I am the breath of life. I walk unconditionally as I see all here are me equal and one.

2011 Recent Points, Agreement, Speaking, Being Lonely